life as we know it

[playme]

how is it that after many dates, boyfriends, a few long term relationships and one divorce; i am now just finally realizing what a marriage/life-long relationship entails? at the age of 29??

[don't judge me, i have an answer.]

over the past year i have formed a bond with a man who's insight to a (long-term) working relationship is one of the most logical i've heard yet. prepare yourself for a profound piece of knowledge from the mouth of a MAN... "to have no end in sight" yes, that is the key. well - one of the many keys on that fat key chain labeled 'relationship'.  

to have no end in sight.

 

plain&simple:
make the decision to be in that relationship and commit to that decision. commit to that relationship, 100%.  for life. for eternity.  do not give yourself the option of an out.  because once you are at a point that you can MAKE that decision/commitment with your partner. you're in it. for life. no matter what happens, no matter what is thrown your way. regardless of change that either parties go through or make. if separation is not an option, you will get through anything & everything together.

do it.